Sudden unexpected death in epilepsy (SUDEP): Dealing with the fear

Every year, around 1 in 1,000 people with epilepsy die suddenly because of the disease. Knowing about this risk can be worrying. It can be helpful to understand what leads to SUDEP and that the risk can be reduced through good epilepsy treatment and care. There are also various ways to deal with worries and fears. It is important to find the best way for you.
SUDEP stands for “sudden unexpected death in epilepsy.” This usually happens after an epileptic seizure that results in respiratory arrest (the person stops breathing) and cardiac arrest (their heart stops beating). Although the risk of SUDEP is low, it is still there. This can be distressing and worrying. Not only for the person with epilepsy, but also for those close to them – especially the parents of a child with epilepsy. How people feel about this risk varies from person to person and can also change over time – for example, depending on how often the seizures occur.
Finding out about SUDEP often comes as a surprise. It can be very unsettling – especially if you hear about it by chance after many years of living with epilepsy. Most people with this disease, and also those close to them, say they would prefer to know about SUDEP early on. If doctors inform you well enough soon after the epilepsy diagnosis, that can usually help to reduce fears and worries.
Getting a realistic assessment of your risk of SUDEP can generally help, too. You can ask your doctor to assess your own personal risk. It is also important to know that the risk of SUDEP can be reduced through individually tailored epilepsy treatment. For this reason, it's important to have a doctor who gives you enough information and good medical care.