One thing that has changed a lot is that eating in restaurants has become tricky. They’ll often tell you that things are gluten-free. But people don't understand that even traces are enough to contaminate the food with gluten.
Like when I went to a pizzeria that also offered gluten-free pizzas. I was so pleased and ordered one. Half an hour after eating it, I started to feel unwell and had to go home and vomited. The next day I had diarrhea.
When I asked them later, they told me that the gluten-free pizza bases are put on the same work surface as the other pizzas, the tomato sauce is spread with the same spoon on all pizzas, and the same wooden paddle is used to put the pizzas in the oven. That is enough for the otherwise gluten-free pizzas to then be contaminated with gluten.
I always take something to eat with me when I’m out and about, like a piece of cake. That way, I can go to a café spontaneously. And then explain why I have brought my own cake.
I take my own food if friends invite us over, too. I prefer to play it safe.
Our friends were a little offended at first because they thought I didn’t trust them. They later understood when they realized how difficult it is to cook completely gluten-free. It also makes life easier for them because they don’t have to feel bad if I'm unwell after eating.
We don't go to hotels anymore, either, but always book a holiday home where we can cook for ourselves. It’s the easiest way. Luckily, my wife and I really enjoy cooking.