OCD can be distressing and very time-consuming. It may become so severe that you hardly have time for anything else in life, making it difficult or impossible to get on with daily activities. People with OCD are also often ashamed of their thoughts or behavior. They might try to hide their behavior because they're worried that other people will think they're weird. It is usually very difficult to hide, though.
Many people are reluctant to seek help or tell others about their problem. Others might worry that being labeled "mentally ill" could affect their work and their families. But many people who have completed treatment say that they wish they had got help earlier.
OCD can be a challenge for families and sometimes lead to conflict. Family members may feel they also need to go along with the compulsive behavior, for instance by arranging things in a certain order, so they don't upset the person with OCD.
Many parents in particular also feel bad because they think they should have noticed their child's problem sooner.
But it often takes a long time to realize that someone has OCD, not least because they try to hide their obsessive-compulsive behavior for as long as possible. Others don't think that they have OCD themselves, so they refuse to accept any help.
Family members are important when it comes to helping people with OCD, though, because they may understand the disorder better than other people do. When family members are involved in therapy, they can sometimes even help the person to face their fears and manage their behavior. This can be especially helpful after the treatment is completed, to help make sure that it has a lasting effect.